“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”- Wayne Dyer
03 October, 2011
"I don't need you to write me a song, I'll write enough for the both of us.
You said you'd walk to Olympia to be with me,
so then I promised to teach our kids how to spell real well.
I want you here for it all,
I know we wont let each other fall"
A little (much needed) wisdom from The Daily Love today:
People will do what they will do, and it's just not about you.
When you release blame and expectation and instead choose to look inside yourself, then you can simply meet another right where they are. In that, you will be free enough to love them, and free enough to be loved by them.
I am free and whole enough to have been able to let in the love of a new man in my life...a man that I can trust, and who has proved himself worthy of my love as well. Our plans are big and without fear, and I can't wait for what is to come.
I have an incredible family here that supports my dreams and visions.
And of course there is the Love of the Creator which replenishes and nourishes my spirit unconditionally.